The oddest thing...
Feb. 21st, 2006 02:51 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I just got a phone call from my mother. Apparently this girl at my old school manifested today and for some reason the principal called my mom to come talk to the girl and her mom.
Now I'm supposed to call this girl and reassure her that this isn't the end of the world.
Anyone have any idea about what I should tell her?
Now I'm supposed to call this girl and reassure her that this isn't the end of the world.
Anyone have any idea about what I should tell her?
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Date: 2006-02-22 01:00 am (UTC)One of the things that finally did the trick was my dad pointing out that I could get all my chores for the day done in an hour while still watching cartoons. Heh. For this girl . . . you said your mom said the light's pretty? Maybe hang a bunch of prism mobiles in a room and let her see what she does to them.
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Date: 2006-02-22 01:03 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-02-22 01:18 am (UTC)The main thing to try and do, I think, is to try and get her to not think of it as something that was done to her. I mean, it wasn't really until I'd been here for a while that I stopped "making the best of it," really, but even if you can get her to go that far that'll help a lot . . . it's that first "what did I do to get cursed like this?" reaction that she needs to get past asap. If you can think of ways that her life might be better with the glow, highlight those. Like, um, she's her own reading light now, only you should come up with ideas that aren't lame. :)
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Date: 2006-02-22 01:23 am (UTC)Which I have to say sounds cool. Now if I can just get my mom to figure out how her camera phone works I might even be able to share a picture at someone.
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Date: 2006-02-22 01:44 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2006-02-22 02:28 am (UTC)Nah, I just saw some parallels, is all. Supportive parents, harmless-but-potentially-stigmatizing mutation . . . even with the embarrassment of manifesting in public, though, at least she's "out" right away and doesn't have to deal with worrying about the lies falling apart. I still wonder if it might've been easier if I'd duped in the middle of a dodge-ball game.
'Course, the millenial Kansas sticks were, um, let's just say they were a lot less cosmopolitan than California in 2006, so maybe it's more of a six-of-one deal. Ironically.
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Date: 2006-02-22 03:21 am (UTC)